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The Clarity Gate

This step helps you simplify your desire until it becomes clear and real. There are no perfect answers — just honest ones.

If you can't choose quickly, that's information — not failure.
Clarity comes through the process, not before it.

1. Distill the Ask

Strip away the noise. What do you actually want? Say it simply.

What do you want? (One sentence)

What does it look like in physical reality?

What does "done" mean?

2. The Anti-Ask

Sometimes what we want hides a fear. The anti-ask is what you're trying to move away from. Naming it makes your desire honest.

Ask: "Financial freedom." → Anti-ask: "Feeling trapped by debt again."

What do you NOT want?

3. Recognition — Where Does This Already Exist?

Look for a seed of what you want that's already present — even a tiny version. This isn't wishful thinking; it's noticing what's real.

e.g., "I managed to save $200 last month without even trying."

Where does this already show up in your life?

4. Honest Check

These two questions help you check whether this desire comes from a deep place — or from ego. Be honest. Either answer is fine.

Would you still want this if nobody saw it?

Is this about getting — or becoming?

Define What You're Becoming

1Desire

2Identity

3Resistance

4Commit

5Seal

What are you calling in?

Name what you want and describe it as if it's already real. Write in present tense — "I am…" or "I have…" — not "I want…" There is no right way to answer — honest and simple is better than perfect.

Give it a name

Describe it (present tense)

Why does this matter to you?

Time Horizon

I need this by

Category

✓ You just named what most people leave vague. That alone changes things.

Who are you becoming?

This isn't about changing who you are. It's about noticing who you naturally become when this is already true. Think: confident, calm, generous, disciplined, free.

Choose your archetype

Pick the role that feels closest to your future self.

Who would no longer recognize you?

Real change often means you think and act differently than before. This question helps you notice that shift. 1–3 sentences is enough.

Inner Landscape

Rate where you are right now. There's no wrong answer — just an honest snapshot.

Belief — "How possible does this feel?"

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Resistance — "What part of you doubts this?"

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How will it feel when this is real?

✓ You're defining who you're becoming. Each answer makes it more real.

What stands between you and this becoming?

Name what's in the way — not to judge it, but to see it clearly. Honest and simple is better than perfect.

Who do you need to become?

What part of your identity must change?

What's holding you back?

What is The Protector afraid of?

The Protector is the part of you that resists change — not because it's bad, but because it's trying to keep you safe.

✦ Go deeper (optional — enriches your practice)

What will receiving this free you from?

What scares you about actually receiving this?

Most people have a hidden fear of getting what they want.

Describe the pattern

The Two Voices

The Protector says…

The Asker responds…

✓ Most people never look at this honestly. You just did. That's not small.

Make space for what's next.

Before You Receive

If your life is already full of old habits and reactions, new change has nowhere to land. Before you can receive something new, you need to let go of something old — like clearing a shelf before putting something new on it.

What will you stop or remove?

Your Commitment

This is a small, real action that proves your commitment — not suffering, just a daily practice that stretches you slightly. Think: a 10-minute walk, saving $5, making one difficult call, waking up 15 minutes earlier.

Type of commitment

What will you do?

This feels slightly uncomfortable

Good. Growth lives just past comfort. If it's too easy, it won't change anything.

What identity are you willing to release?

How often?

Minimum version

If you miss a day…

✓ Space created. You're ready to seal this.

Seal This Becoming

You've done the inner work. Now ground it in one real action. This is the bridge between intention and reality.

⬡ Ground It in Reality

What ONE physical action proves this is already happening?

Something you can do today. Not a plan — one concrete action.

Ritual

Insights

Coherence

Coherence moments are recognition, not proof. Your practice aligns perception — reality follows.